Detective Reveals 10 Tips Everyone Should Do When They’re Home Alone
By Nick Hadji
2 years ago
Image Source / RedditIt's great if you love sharing your life and home with people on social media, but you have to be careful when you live alone. You may want to rethink posting a picture of your cute socks in front of a glass of wine with the tagline "GETTING READY FOR A COZY EVENING AT HOME ALL ALONE" for the world to see.
Image Source / RedditWhen you live alone, there's nobody else to help you or explain your medical needs if something should happen, like you suffer a fall, go unconscious or are involved in an accident. Having an emergency card in your wallet which tells emergency services who to contact or what to do in this type of situation will keep you safe.
Image Source / RedditIt always helps with your own security when you're home alone to know that your neighbors have your back. Neighbors can then be updated with your routine so they know when they might need to worry or check on you, and can also be great for watching out for any suspicious activity around your home. Your neighbors can then call the police if they need to.
Image Source / RedditTry to throw parties, invite people around or create some hustle and bustle, so that your home always seems like it's full of life and always with people coming and going, even if you live alone. This will make your home seem less of an easy target. Of course, this can be nightmare fuel for an introvert who wants to live like a hermit, so if you don't want to throw a party, try to give the illusion of a busy home somehow! (You could always do what Kevin McAllister did and use cardboard cutouts of people).
Image Source / RedditYou don't want to be fumbling for your keys in the bottom of your bag for a good ten minutes when you reach your front door. Somebody targeting you could then take this opportunity to attack you when you're distracted. This is more likely in a poorly lit street or very late at night - so have your keys out ready, get inside and lock the door behind you!
Image Source / RedditSliding doors are great for aesthetic purposes - not so great for security if someone manages to break through. But there's a great safety tip you can try so that the door cannot be slid open, even if the lock is picked or the glass is broken. Simply put a wooden dowel into the track when you're going to bed or when you're not using the door to stop it from being moved across.
Image Source / RedditThe worst can still happen no matter how safe you try to be, so what's important is having an exit plan. Whether this is for a fire, a home intrusion or anything that prevents you from staying safely in the home, you need to know how you can get out. Is there a window you can easily climb from? An alternative door? A neighbor you could go to straight away once you've made it outside? Work out a plan!
Image Source / RedditGetting a dog when you live alone can be one of the best things you can do to feel safer, and hopefully deter crime. One thing that can put off intruders in particular is knowing that you have a dog - even better if you have a large one that's a recognisable guard-dog breed. So if you're in a position to have a dog, and you want one anyway, it can only be a good thing for your personal safety.
Image Source / RedditIf you're not in the position to have a guard dog, or at the very least a canine companion, you could always give the illusion that your home is protected by one. Put up a sign of having a dog on your gate. Leave something outside, like a dog toy. Or, get a recording or dog's barking to press play on if you hear something outside late at night. You never know!
Image Source / RedditIf you don't want the commitment of your own dog but you do like the idea of the extra security, fostering dogs is always an option, too. That way you'll always have a dog in your home, on consistent short-term basis, to deter intruders - while giving animals in need a good temporary home in the meantime!
Image Source / RedditText a friend or loved one when you get safely inside your front door after a night or day out. Send them a general text to let them know you're okay. Or you can even speak to them if you feel uneasy about being home alone or think you heard something. Obviously the police should be the go-to when you think you're in danger, but friends and family can also have advice about staying safe in non-emergency situations, too!
Image Source / RedditWe know the feeling when your phone battery dies when you're in the middle of browsing social media in front of the TV, and your charger is just too much effort to go and get - so you leave your phone off. But this is a big no for personal safety - making sure your phone is fully charged at all times means it's always on and ready to call for help during an emergency situation.
Image Source / RedditWe don't mean stay awake all night scrolling funny cat videos, but make sure it's at least in the bedroom with you on a nearby table or within arm's reach. Don't leave it in the living room or kitchen when you go to bed because this means you won't be able to call for help if you're trapped in the bedroom and there's an intruder, or other issues.
Image Source / RedditYou're giving yourself a better chance at safety - as well as just feeling more secure whilst in your bedroom at night - if your bedroom door is made out of something solid, like thick wood. So if you're someone who doesn't have a door at the minute and has a curtain pulled over or something, you might want to rethink that!
Image Source / RedditSleeping alone in your bedroom at night leaves you most vulnerable, but of course staying safe whilst alone is about any hour of the day. So if you have the means to, switch all the doors in your home - especially the front door - to something secure, durable and solid. Time to replace those doors hanging off their hinges!
Image Source / RedditBecause the bedroom is the place most likely to be targeted during a night-time robbery, if there's one door to put a lock on, it's your bedroom. Not only will it make you feel more safe, but it'll give you extra time to slow the intruder down while you grab your phone and call the police.
Image Source / RedditNo this isn't about being a proper adult who's afraid to sleep in the dark (though we wouldn't blame you for wanting a cute panda lamp or something on at night to help you sleep). A night light is great for personal security, not only because it gives the illusion through the window that someone is still awake in the room, but also because it means you can actually see what's going on if you're woken up by something.
Image Source / RedditYou don't want to be sat alone in the middle of your living room with all the lights on and the TV blaring, only for anyone walking past to be able to see inside your home. This means an intruder could easily just stand outside the window and stare in at you, to not only see what valuables you have, but to easily spot the fact you're alone.
Image Source / RedditEspecially if you're taking the previous tip about leaving a night light on. Even if your bedroom is high up on a top floor, you don't want to risk someone being able to see through the window, because an intruder will use any means necessary, like climbing up to the higher windows.
Image Source / PinterestIntruders are bound to lurk outside your home, especially if you have a huge garden or yard. It's hard to keep track of what's going on outside if you can't see anything with no outside lights. Worse still, if you're coming home and walking through your dark garden to the door, this could be prime opportunity for someone to attack you.
Image Source / RedditOne step better than general lights outside your home is a motion sensor light. This can be a great deterrent for intruders passing by and getting caught in the sensor, and it's also great at alerting you when you see the lights come on outside at stupid o'clock or when you know nobody should be out there! Always a chance it's a cat, but it's worth knowing.
Image Source / ImgflipThis one sounds random, but think about it - you've just parked up at home and you're talking on your phone at your front door, loudly, to your friend, telling them you're going to be home alone all week. Anyone passing by or an intruder that's already targeting you home could overhear that great news that you're going to be alone and vulnerable.
Image Source / RedditIt goes without saying for most millennials that you should run and hide whenever the doorbell rings, but it's so important to not open the door to someone you're not expecting. If someone is knocking on your door and you don't know them, you've every right to tell them to go away or just ignore them.
Image Source / RedditIf you do open the door to a stranger - if you're expecting a parcel or think it's someone else, for example - definitely don't then let them into your home, even if they ask to. Some people might ask to quickly use your phone or bathroom, but don't let anyone you don't know into your home, even if they seem nice.
Image Source / The Providence JournalSome people will turn up at your door looking, and acting, official. It could be a police officer, a fireman asking about your fire alarms, or someone claiming they're from the electricity company. Always ask to see official identification, and if you're still not sure, tell them you need further checks and you're not comfortable letting them in. If they're legit, they'll understand.
Image Source / RedditLock it behind you the moment you step inside the house. As I'm sure most parents will tell you, back in their day they never had to lock the door, but times have changed. Intruders and other troublemakers may try their luck in seeing if your door is unlocked by trying the handle. If they can stroll right in, it doesn't say much for your personal security.
Image Source / RedditIf you're just too hot when you're trying to sleep, especially during the peak summer, don't be tempted to throw your bedroom window wide open while you sleep. Get a fan instead to keep your room cool, while your bedroom window stays securely locked and closed! And the same goes for any window in your house.
Image Source / RedditGarage security can often go amiss because it's separate from the main house, and you may forget to properly secure your garage door - but this can be the first port of call for someone trying to break in. So always be sure to close and lock your garage doors after you, and don't feel tempted to leave them open while you pop into the house.
Image Source / RedditIf you're parking your car in your garage and an intruder does manage to get in there, you then don't want to have valuables in full view inside your car, even if it's locked inside and inside your own garage. They're only going to break into your car to get them - or it could then indicate the type of valuables you're likely to have in your home.
Image Source / RedditThis one might be costly, but there's no doubt it's worth it, and it's the most obvious thing you can do recommended by police and security experts if you live alone. Kitting your home out with security features - especially visible ones, like an alarm or camera, to deter intruders - will help keep you and your home safe.


















